Your next step, clarified.
One hour with a board-certified fertility doctor who isn't selling you an IVF cycle or a supplement stack on the other side of this call — just someone who's spent years watching patients struggle with knowing what to do. Get ahead of the game.
"You can't control the outcome. You can control how prepared you are for it."
PMOS/PCOS is the most common cause of infertility. It's also the most treatable. Most women with PCOS who get the right information never need IVF.
I've been through IVF myself, twice. I know what it feels like to sit with uncertainty and want it to stop. To want to be on the other side of this, raising a family.
I want you to know what I know.
The research exists. Most of it never makes it into a fifteen-minute appointment, and what fills the gap is usually someone selling something. I translate it instead.
Fertility is what I'm known for, but my work doesn't stop there. I see women navigating PCOS, unexplained infertility, IVF, egg freezing decisions, perimenopause, and the metabolic shifts that come with each of those. If it involves your hormones or your ovaries, I've probably spent twenty years reading about it.
Two decades caring for women through fertility, irregular cycles, and perimenopause. First as faculty at the University of Washington, then as a co-founding partner of Seattle Reproductive Medicine, and through the Food for Fertility program I built with dietitian Judy Simon.
A lot of women put off that first fertility appointment because they're afraid of what they'll hear. That they need IVF. That it's going to cost $20,000.
So they wait. Hope this month is different. Put their name on a clinic waitlist and sit with the uncertainty for weeks.
One woman I spoke with suspected something was wrong. She lied to her gynecologist to get a referral. Told her she'd been trying longer than she had. She just wanted answers sooner.
Fertility clinics are set up to see patients when they're more likely to need treatment. Most ob/gyns honestly don't know much beyond the basics of fertility testing because their training focuses on obstetrics and contraception.
Another woman had been at her fertility clinic and had gone through an IVF cycle that did not work. She had rarely seen her actual doctor. Information came in fragments, delivered when she needed to know something instead of the big picture. She didn't realize that there were different protocols and with her diagnosis of endometriosis, a different protocol might have worked better. She came to me to think through whether she should switch clinics. She did.
A third woman watched a friend freeze eggs through her employer's insurance benefit and decided to do the same. Her clinic quoted her one cycle at $10,000. Nobody told her that a single cycle at her age and reserve might only give her a 20% chance of a future live birth. Most women would prefer to know how many eggs they need to freeze for an 80% chance of success. That may take multiple rounds. She found that out during our consult and felt better knowing what to expect.
I got a master's in behavioural science because fertility decisions are genuinely hard in a specific way. Should I freeze my eggs? Is now the right time for IVF? Do I have to wait a year before I can get help? Online searching doesn't always give you the answers you need. What helps is having a physician who understands your situation and can help you make a decision on what to do next.
You don't have to wait to get answers. An educational consultation with me isn't a fertility clinic appointment. There's no pressure, no protocol, no bill from an insurance department you don't understand. It's an hour with a physician who'll tell you what's going on and what your options are. And what you can do this month, whether that's a lifestyle change, a specific test to ask for, or yes, a referral to the right clinic.
You'll leave knowing exactly what your next step is. That's the whole point of the hour.
What most women don't know going in
Fertility clinics are not all equal, and the differences matter more than the marketing suggests. Egg freezing is the most technically demanding procedure in reproductive medicine. The lab conditions, the embryologist, the stimulation protocol. It varies enormously and none of it shows up on a clinic's website.
Overseas treatment is a real option for some women, with high expertise and a fraction of the cost, and almost nobody talks about it honestly. Some clinics are high-volume factories optimized for throughput. Others are boutique practices where the surgeon you meet is the surgeon who operates. Profit, patient experience, and success rates don't always point in the same direction.
Success rates are reported in ways designed to look good, not to help you compare. This is the kind of information that exists inside the system and almost never makes it out. That's what this session is for.
Educational consultation only. No physician-patient relationship is created. I cannot order labs, prescribe medications, or provide medical advice. Always work with your licensed care team for clinical decisions. Available to women in all 50 states.
Women come to me when they're asking things like...
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Clarity from an insider that you can't get anywhere else. No more months of waiting.
Limited availability. Small number of consultations each month.
Get clarity now →If you've been carrying a question around for a while and nobody has given you a straight answer, this is a start.
Live Workshops
PCOS and Fertility. Fertility After 35. Unexplained Infertility. $129 per session. Get on the waitlist and we'll let you know when it's scheduled.
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Clinical depth. Plain language. Free.
Subscribe to The Fertility Brief →Live, small-group workshops on the fertility topics women ask me about most. $129 per session. Get on the waitlist and we'll let you know when it's happening.
The most common and most treatable cause of fertility struggles. The four Rotterdam phenotypes, the insulin-hormone connection, and the lifestyle strategies with the strongest evidence. What PMOS means and why the name change matters.
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Join the waitlist →The decline is real. It's also slower and less uniform than the headlines suggest. What the data actually shows about your mid-to-late thirties, what your numbers mean, and when it's worth acting.
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Join the waitlist →If you've been told everything looks fine but nothing is working, this is for you. What standard workups miss, what questions to ask your clinic, and what you can actually do next.
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Co-authored with reproductive dietitian Judy Simon, Getting to Baby distills the food-first approach we developed at the Food for Fertility program, built from years of clinical work helping women improve their odds of conceiving naturally.
"If you're looking for fertility-friendly advice on nutrition with an evidence-based approach, look no further. I am thrilled to have this resource to recommend to my patients."
Lora Shahine, MD, FACOG · Reproductive Endocrinologist